Thursday, February 7, 2013

Love is in the air

Ahhh Valentine's Day ... that romantic celebration where we pamper our loved ones with special treats. As with most of our celebrations, Valentine's Day is often filled with less than Eco-friendly items ... huge boxes of candy with a lot of excess packaging, cards which end up in the trash bin, non-organic flowers and even jewelry containing materials which are mined from the earth. In truth, it doesn't seem very loving to exchange gifts which hurt our environment. So let's examine some common Valentine's Day gifts.

Chocolate

Almost everyone likes chocolate. And ... good news ... chocolate is actually heart healthy. But before you go running off to the store for that heart-shaped box of confections, understand that not all chocolate is created equal. Raw cocoa is filled with antioxidants, bioflavonoids, and magnesium ... all good for us. Unfortunately, milk chocolate doesn't share those benefits because adding in dairy products prevents our body from absorbing the "good stuff". And white chocolate isn't really chocolate at all ... it's a mixture of cocoa butter, sugar and vanilla extract. Both milk chocolate and white chocolate often contain hydrogenated oils (bad, bad stuff). Look for dark chocolates with a high percentage of chocolate liquor ... this number is like a badge of honor to manufacturers who produce quality chocolate so if you don't see it on the label, it probably isn't good quality. Be sure to choose certified organic varieties so that your treats don't come with pesticide residue. To ensure that the environment and cocoa farmers are being protected, choose Fair Trade chocolate. One word of caution ... even quality, earth-friendly chocolate contains fat. It's heart-healthy fat similar to fats found in avocados and olives ... but it's still fat. So let moderation be your guide!

Flowers

Giving a bouquet of flowers is sure to bring a smile to your loved one's face. That is, until your loved one thinks about the cost. No, I'm not talking about the amount of money spent (although that might be an issue as well) ... I'm talking about the environmental cost. Did you know that 85 percent of fresh cut flowers are imported primarily from South America? In 2008 I wrote an article about why fresh flowers are a problem (you can read that post HERE) ... and it seems that things have only gotten worse since then. So, if you must give flowers, choose organic varieties which are locally grown. Consider giving plants or trees instead but ... be sure to ask about where they were grown and how because they can also come from far distances and/or contain pesticides. Here's a clever idea ... choose a dozen packets of flower seeds, attach them to bamboo skewers and tie them together with a ribbon to create a unique, earth-friendly bouquet.

Jewelry

On the most romantic of all days, many couples get engaged. Others express their love with fine jewelry. Diamonds and gold top the list of gems and precious metals used in our most cherished pieces. But what if each piece came with a disclaimer stating that things like mercury, cyanide, and dynamite were used to mine these precious materials? What if, as in the case with "Blood Diamonds", slaves were forced to unearth the gems? Yes, the truth is that the mining process has traditionally been one which destroys the landscape by displacing tons of earth (which typically isn't "put back"), uses toxic chemicals to extract materials and has been associated with slavery. These beautiful pieces don't look so brilliant when we know the facts. When choosing jewelry, look for pieces with recycled gems and metals. If buying new, find out if the materials were mined in an ethical and sustainable method. Consider fair trade items or think outside the box and choose alternate "gems" such as sea glass. Be sure that your "bling" truly represents love and respect.

All The Rest

Cards, parties, going out for dinner ... these are all typical ways that we celebrate Valentine's Day. Here's a question ... how many greeting cards do you actually save? Most people don't save them and that equals a lot of waste. Send egreetings instead ... there are some lovely versions available. If you must send an actual card, make sure it's printed on recycled paper using Eco-friendly ink. Parties are a great way to show your friends that you care ... but they typically include a lot of waste. Reusable plates and utensils, Eco-friendly decorations and plant-based foods will ensure that your party is both fun and kind to the planet. Perhaps your celebration includes a lovely meal at a fine restaurant. Choose a local establishment which employes Eco-friendly, sustainable practices. Do they include local foods on their menu ... are their "take away" containers made of earth-friendly materials ... do they use energy-efficient lighting ... is cooking oil recycled ... do they compost their food scraps? Planning your celebration wisely will ensure that everyone enjoys the event without worry.

Valentine's Day is an advertiser's dream ... they know that we all want to express our feelings to loved ones. So they seduce us with beautiful colors and frills ... and tell us that their products are the best way to say "I love you". But if we purchase items which are full of waste or which include materials that hurt our environment, we're really saying that we don't care. This Valentine's Day, give the gift that respects both the earth and the recipient ... a gift that truly says "I Care".

Now it's your turn ... how do you plan to celebrate Valentine's Day?


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13 comments :

  1. I wish there were more voices calling for moderation and responsibility during our holidays... Christmas is the worst, I think, but if we can make Valentine's Day better, maybe there is hope for us after all!! Thanks for the post!

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    1. I totally agree, Naomi! There is a lot of pressure to celebrate in a less-than-Eco-friendly way ... which is sad because when we truly focus on each other and the environment, the celebration is so much more meaningful. Thanks for stopping by!

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  2. What a timely and thoughtful post to remind us of the downsides of commercially-boosted holidays. I do love Valentine's Day because it's a day to celebrate love and it's my wedding anniversary, and we typically celebrate it with a great homecooked meal and time spent with each other.

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    1. Happy "early" Anniversary, Vaishali! What a lovely way to celebrate!! I can imagine any one of your delicious recipes being a perfect, romantic meal. I've been following your Valentine's Day series and ... YUM! Does your husband get in the kitchen with you? Have a great time ... and thanks for stopping by!

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  3. Valentine's Day, bah humbug; the same for Christmas, Halloween and Easter too. The greed and commercialisation of these and other events are a blight on the human race.

    Sorry to be such a wet blanket, but I hate what these events have become; they serve nobody but the companies that peddle such luxuries. There is no meaning anymore, just sales figures.

    AV

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    1. Too true, AV! And whenever the "bottom line" figures into a situation, the impact to the environment is typically forgotten about. So, the commercialism of these events creates a problem for the environment, a problem for our pocket books, and causes people to forget about the original purpose of the event ... doesn't seem like such a good deal, does it! Thanks, as always, for your comments!

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  4. Dang! the ONE year I decide to bring CelloDad a Valentine's gift (some nice body lotion, Dr. Hauschka: very, very clean personal care products) and you guys go all out on the commercialism - I completely agree, though - Maybe I should keep it until the week after? Vday was just the excuse, anyway.

    We've skipped the restaurants for years, because we dislike the crowds; but after reading "Waiter Rant" we've really avoided restaurants on the "big" days, like mother's day. But we'll have something special at the dinner table.

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    1. LOL, CelloMom! :-) Your gift sounds very thoughtful and Eco-friendly! I don't really have a problem with giving gifts ... but I think that sometimes people relax their environmental standards for a day ... and, of course, advertisers are all over that. I also think that we could make events so much more than the commercial circus they've become.

      I've been hearing a lot, lately, about restaurant servers ... who knew there was so much controversy there. Thanks for coning by ... hope your hubby enjoys his lotion!

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  5. A great post! I particularly love your seed bouquet idea (and we do need to plant some seeds soon so perhaps my beloved shall be getting that). Otherwise it'll be homemade cards and homemade food. Oh and chocolate but we're lucky that our local grocery store stocks Divine chocolate - fair trade and yum!

    I was a waitress years ago while at college and Valentines Day was beyond busy...as a result I've never eaten in a restaurant for Valentines!

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    1. Oh thanks, Catherine! :-) It sounds like you're going to have a lovely Valentine's Day. If you decide to do the seed bouquet, I hope you'll take a picture and post it on your blog. I thought it was really a clever, fun idea! By the way, I was reading your "about" page and love your philosophy!! Thanks for stopping by!

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  6. I'm a big fan of dark chocolate and send e-cards mostly. Diamonds don't look the same when you think of the horrible ways they are extracted to get set into that beautiful ring.

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    1. Hi Amberr ... you're so right! I don't know that I could ever look at a diamond again without feeling bad. Sea glass, however, fascinates me ... wouldn't it be special to have an engagement ring made out of it? Thanks for stopping by!

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  7. We just stayed at home, cooked dinner and shared a great night together. No flowers, but with chocolates. I'm guilty of eating the milk chocolate one though. :(

    We believe that every day should be a Valentine's day. And yes, I agree that celebrating this day has been so much into material stuff and trying out things based on what media has been encouraging us to do. It is time to go back to what this day really means for us and express our love to the people who matters most to us in the simplest (but heartfelt) ways possible. :)

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